Unrequited Love

Oh unrequited love...we have all been there...and it sucks...

we fall for that person that seems unattainable...

Well to those who would rather be insisting than letting reality hit them

here are certain things to do in order to get that person to notice you...first you need to put yourself out there...NOW SOME PEOPLE CHANGE WHO THEY ARE...THAT IS A NO-NO! NEVER EVER CHANGE WHO YOU ARE!

iF YOU CHOOSE TO IMPROVE URSELF, DO IT FOR URSELF!!!!...by improve i mean like becoming more confident or getting out of your rut...but remember never change for someone that may not even fall for you.

I remember when I wanted a certain someone to notice me...

I deliberately put myself in their daily life. You can do this too, BUT DO NOT DO IT IN A STALKER WAY...you don't want to seem creepy either. Make your presence known though. If you are in the same class and ure usually quiet...speak up... Don't over do it though...itll be uncool if you do...yes this sounds suppppeeerrr superficial but come on now...we all know the kids that talk to much in class are the ones you wanna slap upside their head for brown nosing. anyway...

Presence is not only important in how noticeable you are, but it's also how fresh you dress. Im sorry to say, but being real...and not speaking out of my side because I have been there...if you know you're dressed like a bum...can you imagine what other ppl see? Hey if you feel comfortable then by all means.. but if ure not.Try dressing more laid back, but still good enough..be casual but not bummy...think how well dressed that hottie ur eye-ing is...again it sounds conceited or superficial? true, but come on lets put our feet on the ground and be real on this...who wants to go out on a date with someone who wheres baggy sweat pants and a baggy sweater or a shirt that you know they got for free from a promotion a company was doing??? exactly.

so in nicer words...dress to impress and demonstrate who runs the show.

if by now you still havent gotten at least on a name bases with the special someone... it does not hurt to go up to someone and say hey arent u in my class...or hey do i know u...but dont be creepy..this guy did this on the train once claiming he knew me and was very presistent...but he just ended up creeping me out and i wanted to get away from him asap...if the person says no then say oh ok sorry...and then say something like i was sure it was my friend..but thats cool. and then say oh by the way im -insert name- and then lead into casual convo...but read how receptive the person is...if they arent receptive then sweetie let it bounce off ur shoulders...

Other small tips to dealing with that one u like::::::::

----dont treat them differently....if ure too obvious everyone knows!!!!!!! treat this guy or girl the same....but put a little hmmmppphh to it every once in a while...sometimes people make the mistake of having the whole world know and then it blows up........

-----NEVER EVER TRUST ANOTHER PERSON TO TELL THAT PERSON THAT U ARE INTO THEM...im going to admit that I did this in freshman yr in college and the girl ended up going out with my crush and then she had my crush dislike me...thank god he and i built a friendship and i let that move on off my shoulders...but me and that girl no longer talk....so beware of those u tell cuz let me tell u...hmmmm nope, no good....

if u are friends with that special someone and know that she/he likes someone else....try getting their attention but if they are head over heels with someone else and it doesnt seem that ur attempts are successful...then sweets...let it ride....dont chase them....if u chase u end up appearing needy and thats unattractive as well......

well i hope this helps out anyone...out there....good luck!!!!

P.S. ULTIMATELY BE REALISTIC...NEVER PUT URSELF IN HARMS WAY...

DONT END UP LIKE THE LIL GUY IN THE IN THE COMIC STRIP...IT ISNT FUN

AND WE ALL KNOW IT SUCKS TO BE IN THAT POSITION